If you want to know how to pickup women than you will want to know how NOT to pickup women. In this article we will be discussing why you shouldn’t put her on a pedestal, why you do not want to appear to be eager, and why bragging can be a major pitfall. After reading this article you will have gained some knowledge that will put you miles ahead of the other guy.

Don’t Pedestal

A big phenomenon is when a regular guy meets a incredibly good looking woman he, for reason, puts her on a pedestal like she is a goddess among men. Why do such a thing to somebody you know nothing about. For all you know she might scratch herself in inappropriate areas while in public. Just simply don’t put her up there.

Pedestaling is bad because it makes you act more like her pet than the man she desires. Women don’t like men who follow, they want men who lead. This also lowers your social value so if you are still pedestaling it is time to stop. Now that you know about this it will help you with our next point.

Don’t Appear To Be Eager

Women don’t want to meet a guy who gets all excited and possibly obnoxious upon the first few seconds of initiating contact. This is obviously a bad thing as you may come off as being desperate or having no experience at all with women.

Remember to be confident as well as cool and collected. Women want men who have their head on their shoulders. Also remember to think fun not outcome and you will notice a big difference. Now that we have that out of the way let’s move on to our last point.

Don’t Brag

Women don’t want to hear about all of your accomplishments since the day you were born. Bragging makes you look insecure because you feel the need to try and impress her with everything you have done in life. If you feel the need to brag do it while telling a story. This way you can add other interesting elements while taking some of the focus off of you.

Well here we are at the finish line, do you see why you shouldn’t pedestal, be too excited, or brag? They all unite with their insecurities in common and that is a fraternity you shouldn’t want to pledge to. Now that you know how not to pickup women, why not go out there and do it the right way?